Hmmm....It's sort of like getting up on a stage and forgetting your own name. In the past 12 months, from Jan. 2009 to Jan. 2010 I have: undergone a hysterectomy seperated and divorced from my first husband survived said outloud things that I hid from everyone met the most lovely human beings ever married said human being...we will call him "Shrek"...no he doesn't look like shrek but he does a perfect imitation. embraced an idea and an opportunity to turn away from all the pain of my past life and realize that there is happiness, I do deserve it and I will not dwell on the road that got me to it